Weigh and Measure
When you begin to plan your food, you put yourself in the position to weigh and measure your food.
Over the years, your perceptions of portions have been skewed. This is another problem to blame on society. Your morning juice might be two servings while your bagel might be three servings. With large portions, your day can fall off track before breakfast is over.
A handy kitchen scale is a useful tool to understand the relationship between weights and portions. Utilizing nutrition-tracking websites and apps is another way to gain a better understanding of what you are eating. The salad you ordered for dinner may have twice the calories as the steak you passed up. More information leads to better choices.
You may say that you are not hungry at breakfast time, but experiment with different foods at different times. Try having more protein and fiber at different meals, especially early in the day. Protein and fiber for breakfast help to control blood sugar throughout the day. Try new foods to break the old patterns and routines that led to unhappiness and being overweight.
When you complete the weighing and measuring from above, you will realize how much more you can eat of certain healthy foods. Suddenly, that pile of cauliflower will look more appealing than the tiny stack of chips. Your experimentation may result in finding a new favorite food that is also a good calorie deal.
Improving Your Self-Esteem
You know that changing your body is only step one. To have the desired results, you have to change your mind as well.
Even if you are not successful with your weight loss goals, improving your self-esteem will lead you towards self-acceptance. Answer these questions to see a better you.
- What three words/phrases best describe you? Don’t settle for neutral or slightly positive words to describe yourself. Saying that you are kind might be accurate but will not yield the same results as saying you are compassionate or altruistic. Get out the thesaurus or search online for innovative ways to describe your character. Be sure to exclude qualifiers from the process. Saying things like “sort of, kind of and sometimes” diminishes from the positive impact. You are motivated. You are devoted. You are very humorous. What else are you?
- What do you do best? Everyone has unique talents and abilities. Find yours by taking an accurate inventory of your life. Maybe your skills come in how you relate to others, how you bake amazing apple pies or how you have an uncanny knack for memorizing lines from funny movies. Your strengths make you who you are. Exploit them.
- What is your biggest accomplishment in the last year? If diabetes and low self-esteem have been a longstanding part of your life, you might feel that the last year has been free from accomplishments. Continue looking deeper. Achievements come in all shapes and sizes. Were you able to attend all your doctor’s appointments? Could you keep your blood sugar under control? Did you make a new friend? Did you exercise more often?
- What is your favorite possession? Maybe it’s your smile, the flat screen TV hung on the wall or a handmade gift from a friend that you value the most. Listing your prized possession gives a well-rounded picture of your esteem. Adding multiple dimensions makes for balanced sense of self.
- What are you working on? Having goals and direction in life limits feelings of sadness and hopelessness. Commonly, people are happier when they have direction, routine and drive to accomplish tasks. Completing those goals adds another achievement to your list and boosts esteem. Be sure to set goals that are reasonable and attainable. Setting goals unrealistically high only ends with disappointment and letdown.
If you find yourself stuck or confused with any of the questions above, employ your trusted supports. People in your life may be well-suited to see the positive qualities in you that you have missed or forgotten. To get maximum benefit from their help, actively work to believe and accept the feedback they give.
Ignore your preconceived notions about weight and self-esteem. The truth is that you can have good self-esteem being overweight, and you can have poor self-esteem while at a healthy weight.
Since the goal is to have the best of both worlds, address your needs independently. Work on the weight and improve the self-esteem through the tips above. These are big issues, but ones worthy of your time and effort since your diabetes will improve along the way. A happier, healthier you begins now.